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Date: 2004-01-11 10:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 10:52 am (UTC)=:-)
(What, you expected serious comment?)
As it happens I've just started Why Is Sex Fun? (http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/075380154X/ref=sr_aps_books_1_1/202-6823439-4606232)
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Date: 2004-01-12 06:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-13 11:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 10:53 am (UTC)What you choose to do as a result of a feeling may or may not be a sin.
Lust is only a problem when it leads to stuff like harrassment, stalking, rape, infidelity or a self-destructive addiction to sex.
I suppose that, in the same way that Kosher is really about food hygiene, the idea of treating lust as a sin is a vague attempt to get men in what was a very patriarchal society to take responsibility for controlling their own sexual conduct instead of claiming "she led me on", "I couldn't help it" or any of the other feeble excuses for lack of self control.
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Date: 2004-01-11 11:13 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 11:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 11:34 am (UTC)Before there was property beyond what people carried, there was another issue - childcare. Men wouldn't be likely to care for or take care of children that weren't likely to be theirs, but
could at least sometimes be persuaded to do so if they could be confident that they were. Hence conspicuous fidelity. Heritable property follows the same pattern, but it will have been well-established before then.
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Date: 2004-01-11 02:36 pm (UTC)There's a theory that it developed in the last Ice Age when the climate was sufficiently harsh that children wouldn't survive unless they had two full time carers instead of one.
> Men wouldn't be likely to care for or take care of children that weren't likely to be theirs
Actually, human males generally make remarkably good step-fathers. Oddly enough they bond better with slightly older children than they do with babies.
And, in pre-industrial society children are an asset whoever the biological parents are, because if you bring them up then they'll take care of you in your old age.
The passing of property rights and stuff through the male line really messed things up for society, though. It's such an illogical system.
I'm reasonably sure the commandment against lust was aimed at men, because the early christians thought the best way to restrict womens' sexuality was to keep them locked up so they never had opportunities for infidelity.
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Date: 2004-01-12 03:35 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 11:02 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 11:07 am (UTC)Yay Simon Blackburn!
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Date: 2004-01-11 12:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-11 12:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-12 04:03 am (UTC)Staying or just passing thorough?
How was new year?
HOW THE HELL ARE YOU?!
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Date: 2004-01-12 06:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-13 03:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-15 04:42 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-15 05:17 am (UTC)How personally?
rehabilitate pride, too
Date: 2004-01-18 03:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-18 11:59 am (UTC)