Date: 2004-01-11 10:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] doseybat.livejournal.com
could not agree more. its a definite symptom of being alive. very.

Date: 2004-01-11 10:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sheepthief.livejournal.com
"lust should not be condemned just because it can get out of hand"

=:-)

(What, you expected serious comment?)

As it happens I've just started Why Is Sex Fun? (http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/075380154X/ref=sr_aps_books_1_1/202-6823439-4606232)

Date: 2004-01-13 11:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sheepthief.livejournal.com
So far I've yet to read anything that I hadn't already learned from things such as Selfish Gene, and the double-spaced type makes me suspicious, but... it's not bad. A little bit too dumbed-down for me so far, but that's better than being a little too high-brow for me at the moment as my attention span is nadgered.

Date: 2004-01-11 10:53 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] nickys.livejournal.com
It is silly to claim that a feeling is a sin.

What you choose to do as a result of a feeling may or may not be a sin.
Lust is only a problem when it leads to stuff like harrassment, stalking, rape, infidelity or a self-destructive addiction to sex.


I suppose that, in the same way that Kosher is really about food hygiene, the idea of treating lust as a sin is a vague attempt to get men in what was a very patriarchal society to take responsibility for controlling their own sexual conduct instead of claiming "she led me on", "I couldn't help it" or any of the other feeble excuses for lack of self control.

Date: 2004-01-11 11:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sheepthief.livejournal.com
I'd guess that it was probably more about controlling women, not that I'm a historian or anything, and not that they needed any more control than men either.

Date: 2004-01-11 11:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] green-amber.livejournal.com
It's fundamentally about patriarchy and succession. In a society where "free love" is available without shame or sanction, men don't know who their children are, while women do - so men can't reliably guarantee they're passingproperty down to their own children and not someone else's ; so when you shift from a matrilinear to a patrilinear society (which seems to have happened pretty early on), you have to start enforcing rules that make women sleep only with their Man (and to some extent, vice versa, since sauce for the gander is babies for the goose). So Christianity invents monogamy, adultery, lust as a sin etc. It sucks bigtime.

Date: 2004-01-11 02:36 pm (UTC)
ext_52479: (tea)
From: [identity profile] nickys.livejournal.com
> I'm pretty sure monogamy predates Christianity

There's a theory that it developed in the last Ice Age when the climate was sufficiently harsh that children wouldn't survive unless they had two full time carers instead of one.

> Men wouldn't be likely to care for or take care of children that weren't likely to be theirs

Actually, human males generally make remarkably good step-fathers. Oddly enough they bond better with slightly older children than they do with babies.
And, in pre-industrial society children are an asset whoever the biological parents are, because if you bring them up then they'll take care of you in your old age.

The passing of property rights and stuff through the male line really messed things up for society, though. It's such an illogical system.


I'm reasonably sure the commandment against lust was aimed at men, because the early christians thought the best way to restrict womens' sexuality was to keep them locked up so they never had opportunities for infidelity.

Date: 2004-01-12 03:35 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] hfnuala.livejournal.com
In some african societies men care for/leave property to their sister's children. So don't assume the western solution is the only option :)

Date: 2004-01-11 11:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zoo-music-girl.livejournal.com
Couldn't agree more. ;)

Date: 2004-01-11 11:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sibelian.livejournal.com

Yay Simon Blackburn!

Date: 2004-01-11 12:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blackmetalbaz.livejournal.com
At the risk of sounding like a cliche, I'm sure Dr. LaVey would be proud :-). Good to see that you're still in the land of the living by the way. Take care.

Date: 2004-01-11 12:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetfox.livejournal.com
Ditto that

Date: 2004-01-12 04:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] razornet.livejournal.com
You're back!
Staying or just passing thorough?

How was new year?

HOW THE HELL ARE YOU?!

Date: 2004-01-13 03:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] razornet.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] vyvyan and I are doing well ta. New year was full of fireworks, whiskey and fun. Nice to see you back.

Date: 2004-01-15 04:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] steer.livejournal.com
So who's the most virtuous person you know?

rehabilitate pride, too

Date: 2004-01-18 03:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chillies.livejournal.com
If you're proud of your achievements or of who you are, there's less chance you're going to be pushed around by the church's dictates. In their eyes it's better to damn the transgressors and hope the mob gets them ...

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